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Girl fantasies

You’re not the only one with a checklist of fantasies to fulfill -- she has a list of her own too. iVillage.com lets AskMen.com readers in on some of the naughtiest fantasies she’s been aching to try. Pick your favorite from the list, prepare the necessary props and suggest playing it out tonight.
 

Sexy role play

Sex life feeling a bit stale? Well, there's one sexual organ most people neglect: the brain. It's your passport back to Sexual Nirvana. Literally millions of us secretly use fantasies during masturbation, and some of us use them to achieve orgasm during sex. So why not own up to your favorites and act them out with your partner for what could be the lustiest sex you've had in years? Just follow this step-by-step guide.
 

Fantasy Nº 1

He's a virgin, you're Mrs. Robinson

Why it appeals to you: It's a power game and "forbidden" sex for both parties, which is always a guaranteed libido-lifter.

What you'll need: A sexy secretary-type outfit works for this one: a long pencil skirt, an unbuttoned shirt to show off a push-up bra, stockings, and high heels.

The action plan: The trick to this one is to move very slowly at first. You're seducing him, and he's struggling -- torn between ripping off your clothes and worrying about the consequences. (What will his mom say if she finds out? Is she really seducing him or is he reading too much into it?) Say you're going to fix a drink for each of you, then lead him into the lounge room with your drinks. He sits on the couch, you sit on a chair opposite, crossing your legs and hiking your skirt high. He's not sure where to look. Make general chit-chat (the sort of stuff you'd ask your son's friend, if you have/had a teenager), then take the conversation to another -- saucier -- level. Tell him you don't think your husband finds you attractive anymore. Ask him, “Do you think I’m attractive?”  Let him squirm with embarrassment as he tries to be diplomatic --  and tries to hide his erection.

At that point you say, “You seem a little uncomfortable,” and move from the chair to sit beside him on the couch. Loosen the first two buttons of his shirt and rub the back of your hand against his exposed chest saying, “Such soft skin. So unlike my husband's.” As he squirms, undo the top few buttons of your shirt, take his hand and place it on your breast. Ask him if he likes that.
 

In between your lurid requests and actions, keep making small talk. Ask him if he has ever made love to a woman before. He'll squeak out a no. Ask him if he'd like to make love to you, and tell him it's OK -- you won't tell. Ask him to take off your top and your bra. Tell him to touch your breasts and instruct him on how you like to be touched. Moan and sigh, but remember: You're still the grown-up -- so not too out of control. Ask him to stand up in front of you and unzip his pants. Admire his body, compliment it, say how hard it is, then give him exquisitely tortuous oral sex -- stopping just short of orgasm.

Undress yourself theatrically while maintaining eye contact. Let his eyes caress your body, but don't let him touch you. Leave on your high heels and stockings. Pose provocatively and caress your curves. Ask him if he likes what he sees and if he wants to touch you. Then undress him, kissing each bit of his flesh as it becomes exposed. When you're both naked, lead him to the bed, then explain exactly how to make a woman scream in ecstasy. Each touch, kiss, fondle, and thrust is his very first, remember. The fantasy ends when he completely loses control -- which should happen within about, ohhh, three minutes if you've played your part properly!
 

Fantasy Nº 2

He's your sex slave

Why it appeals to you: Having someone at your sexual beck and call has obvious benefits. You don't have to worry about the "no, you first honey" niceties of sex; it's all about your pleasure, and your pleasure alone.

Why he'll love it too: Something happens to women during this scenario; they start suggesting things they wouldn't dare during "normal" lovemaking. Who wouldn't love a wild woman in his bed?

What you'll need:
 

  • A leather jacket worn over black underwear
  • Stockings and a push-up bra
  • Knee-high or thigh-high boots
  • A blindfold, scarves or old stockings to tie him up
  • A wooden spoon or hairbrush
     

The action plan: Start by ordering him to do small tasks: get you a drink, fluff up the pillows, give you a foot massage. Don't ask, order. Make it clear that you are the boss and he is not to misbehave or he'll be punished (think of a mild punishment beforehand, like spanking him with the wooden spoon). Try to keep an expressionless face. No questions like, “Are you OK? Did I hurt you? Are you sure you're enjoying this?”  This isn't about him; it's all about you.

Once you're both in character, order him to sit or lie down, face turned away from you. Blindfold him and tie his hands behind his back, then push him forward into a submissive position. He's now naked, bound and blindfolded -- completely at your mercy. Grab your wooden spoon or brush and administer a few short, sharp whacks on his bottom. Start caressing and stroking his bottom, the backs of his thighs, reach between his legs and caress his testicles. Wait until he's moaning for more... then stop.
 
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